It is unfair, and quite unrealistic, for Christians to expect non-Christians to behave as Christ. No cause to be disappointed when the one who does not have Christ dwelling within them reacts and acts appallingly towards you. You MUST forgive. I MUST forgive. They don’t know better. It’s not excusing their sin, because they must repent, however, their judgment will come, and it’s not my place to pass it…EVER! I must only love them, despite the pain and suffering that I may experience, I must love them. How else will they know the love of Christ?
Easier said than done.